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  • it’s okay if some people dislike you. not everyone has good taste 💁🏼‍♀️
  • it’s okay if some people dislike you. not everyone has good taste 💁🏼‍♀️
  • 1,130 139 18 March, 2019
  • reminder my next book comes out in like 2 weeks and my new poetry page is @catarinehancock !!!
  • reminder my next book comes out in like 2 weeks and my new poetry page is @catarinehancock !!!
  • 3,198 12 18 March, 2019
  • More often than not we find ourselves chasing people who have in some form or another “rejected” us.

We become obsessed with seeking their approval and winning their love.

Have you ever stopped to wonder why?

The truth is, we are trying to prove ourselves as worthy, valuable and loveable.

We believe that if we can get this one special person to choose us that we will be safe, whole and complete once again.

Because underneath that anxiety and determination to get that person to love you, to choose you, to want you - is a fear that you’re broken.

A fear that you’re really too much, or not enough.

Maybe you’re not good looking enough, or maybe you’re too intense.

Maybe you’re not playful enough, or you’re too silly.

Whatever the story is, some part of you believes that you just don’t make the cut.

And that belief causes you to spiral out chasing after a person who isn’t in alignment.

A person who, for their own reasons, is pulling away.

We can never fully know what is going on in another person’s reality, or why they might choose to leave a relationship.

Sometimes, they are triggered and you’re mirroring an aspect of themselves they just aren’t ready to look at.

Or perhaps, there’s something inexplicable calling them in another direction.

Whatever it is, seeking out and leaning into a person who is pulling away, is self harm.

You’re saying to yourself: I’m going to go after someone who isn’t able to love me the way I deserve to be loved.

And that right there reveals your lack of self worth.

No self confident, powerful person would ever go after someone who is turning away from them.

Because when you know you’re awesome, when you know you’re worthy, you know it’s a waste of your time to spend energy on those who aren’t a match.

Choose people that choose you, stop wasting you’re time on those that don’t.

Because when you let go of those that aren’t in alignment you create space for those that are.

Let yourself be loved by choosing yourself first.

Words @heyheatherobscura @risingwoman
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#healing #consciousrelationship #selfworth #selfesteem #selflove #relationshippatterns #selfconfidence #love #spirituality
  • More often than not we find ourselves chasing people who have in some form or another “rejected” us.

    We become obsessed with seeking their approval and winning their love.

    Have you ever stopped to wonder why?

    The truth is, we are trying to prove ourselves as worthy, valuable and loveable.

    We believe that if we can get this one special person to choose us that we will be safe, whole and complete once again.

    Because underneath that anxiety and determination to get that person to love you, to choose you, to want you - is a fear that you’re broken.

    A fear that you’re really too much, or not enough.

    Maybe you’re not good looking enough, or maybe you’re too intense.

    Maybe you’re not playful enough, or you’re too silly.

    Whatever the story is, some part of you believes that you just don’t make the cut.

    And that belief causes you to spiral out chasing after a person who isn’t in alignment.

    A person who, for their own reasons, is pulling away.

    We can never fully know what is going on in another person’s reality, or why they might choose to leave a relationship.

    Sometimes, they are triggered and you’re mirroring an aspect of themselves they just aren’t ready to look at.

    Or perhaps, there’s something inexplicable calling them in another direction.

    Whatever it is, seeking out and leaning into a person who is pulling away, is self harm.

    You’re saying to yourself: I’m going to go after someone who isn’t able to love me the way I deserve to be loved.

    And that right there reveals your lack of self worth.

    No self confident, powerful person would ever go after someone who is turning away from them.

    Because when you know you’re awesome, when you know you’re worthy, you know it’s a waste of your time to spend energy on those who aren’t a match.

    Choose people that choose you, stop wasting you’re time on those that don’t.

    Because when you let go of those that aren’t in alignment you create space for those that are.

    Let yourself be loved by choosing yourself first.

    Words @heyheatherobscura @risingwoman
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    #healing #consciousrelationship #selfworth #selfesteem #selflove #relationshippatterns #selfconfidence #love #spirituality
  • 37,790 868 18 March, 2019
  • I’m not really sure how to sum up the feeling of self confidence that seeing a great photo of yourself can bring, but I definitely know how it brings smiles to my clients faces. There’s really no greater feeling than seeing someone lose their breath while seeing themselves in your photo, usually accompanied by the words “I can’t believe that’s me!” Well, the thing is, how we see ourselves is a lot different than how other people see us. My job is to bridge that vision, showing you, my subject, how beautiful you really are. Because empowering someone with self-confidence is the greatest reward I receive as a photographer... A certain someone told me that smiles look good on me...I promise I’ll be smiling in the next one 🖤

www.daninoire.com
#lgbtphotographer #socalphotographer #selfconfidence #selfportrait #arcticfoxhaircolor #fentybeauty #transandproud #girlslikeus #transrights #heartsnotparts #fujilove #fujigang
  • I’m not really sure how to sum up the feeling of self confidence that seeing a great photo of yourself can bring, but I definitely know how it brings smiles to my clients faces. There’s really no greater feeling than seeing someone lose their breath while seeing themselves in your photo, usually accompanied by the words “I can’t believe that’s me!” Well, the thing is, how we see ourselves is a lot different than how other people see us. My job is to bridge that vision, showing you, my subject, how beautiful you really are. Because empowering someone with self-confidence is the greatest reward I receive as a photographer... A certain someone told me that smiles look good on me...I promise I’ll be smiling in the next one 🖤

    www.daninoire.com
    #lgbtphotographer #socalphotographer #selfconfidence #selfportrait #arcticfoxhaircolor #fentybeauty #transandproud #girlslikeus #transrights #heartsnotparts #fujilove #fujigang
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Another 10,000 steps complete 💪🏻
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    Another 10,000 steps complete 💪🏻
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  • As long as you have {breathe} you have a {purpose}. There is no need to compare, to worry, or obsess about finding your purpose. Begin by giving God glory and doing your best with where you are and what you have. ⠀
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You are where you are supposed to be to fulfill your purpose according to God’s plan for your life. ⠀
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YOU are uniquely created there’s no one who can fill your shoes. So go ahead do it only like you can with PURPOSE. #beyondmetowe ⠀
📸 credit: @inherprime_ #beauty
  • As long as you have {breathe} you have a {purpose}. There is no need to compare, to worry, or obsess about finding your purpose. Begin by giving God glory and doing your best with where you are and what you have. ⠀
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    You are where you are supposed to be to fulfill your purpose according to God’s plan for your life. ⠀
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    YOU are uniquely created there’s no one who can fill your shoes. So go ahead do it only like you can with PURPOSE. #beyondmetowe
    📸 credit: @inherprime_ #beauty
  • 3 1 5 minutes ago
  • Different doesn’t mean wrong. ⭐️
Different means unique, interesting, views things from a different perspective. Could be more talented, extremely modest, shy, extovert,introverted, empathetic, sporty, passionate, different way of processing things, different ways to express feelings. ⭐️
We are ALL different and our differences should be celebrated and cherished
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Also don’t forget we aren’t ‘our’ behaviours. We ‘do’ behaviours and behaviours can be changed when we are in control of our thoughts and emotions to choose the behaviour we want. This is where NLP is ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
www.clairejonescoaching.co.uk
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  • Different doesn’t mean wrong. ⭐️
    Different means unique, interesting, views things from a different perspective. Could be more talented, extremely modest, shy, extovert,introverted, empathetic, sporty, passionate, different way of processing things, different ways to express feelings. ⭐️
    We are ALL different and our differences should be celebrated and cherished
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    Also don’t forget we aren’t ‘our’ behaviours. We ‘do’ behaviours and behaviours can be changed when we are in control of our thoughts and emotions to choose the behaviour we want. This is where NLP is ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
    www.clairejonescoaching.co.uk
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  • 1 1 6 minutes ago
  • Do you ever just feel like you HAVE TO MOVE? 🏃‍♀️💃🏽 🧘‍♀️ Now that I am pregnant again, I feel this urge even more. 
What is your favorite way to get moving?
  • Do you ever just feel like you HAVE TO MOVE? 🏃‍♀️💃🏽 🧘‍♀️ Now that I am pregnant again, I feel this urge even more.
    What is your favorite way to get moving?
  • 8 1 9 minutes ago
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  • 10 1 13 minutes ago
  • As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is “ #authenticity”. As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it “ #maturity ”. As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm. Today I call it “ #selfconfidence ”. - #CharlieChaplin 
#selflove #growthlooksgoodonyou
  • As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is “ #authenticity ”. As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it “ #maturity ”. As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm. Today I call it “ #selfconfidence ”. - #CharlieChaplin
    #selflove #growthlooksgoodonyou
  • 6 2 15 minutes ago
  • Do you remember the last time you were afraid to express who you are? Why do so many of us feel the need to hide behind a mask? 
Because we are SCARED! Afraid to be our raw selves. We are taught from a young age to behave a certain way, look a certain way, do things a certain way etc….. Although some of these lessons can be valuable, such as, learning respect and manners, some can be harmful and encourage us to hide away from who we really are. Because we are taught at a young age that who we really are does NOT really matter. We are only accepted if we follow societal expectations and rules.

Yes, we all have bad moods, bad hair days, clumsy days, food on our face, mascara running down our cheeks, ketchup sauce dried up on our chin, show up late for work… Why?

Because we are human! 💡

So stop hiding in the dark and shine inside and out. We only have one life to live so start living it before its too late 👣

#selfconfidence #masks #live #expression #life #besties #motivate
  • Do you remember the last time you were afraid to express who you are? Why do so many of us feel the need to hide behind a mask?
    Because we are SCARED! Afraid to be our raw selves. We are taught from a young age to behave a certain way, look a certain way, do things a certain way etc….. Although some of these lessons can be valuable, such as, learning respect and manners, some can be harmful and encourage us to hide away from who we really are. Because we are taught at a young age that who we really are does NOT really matter. We are only accepted if we follow societal expectations and rules.

    Yes, we all have bad moods, bad hair days, clumsy days, food on our face, mascara running down our cheeks, ketchup sauce dried up on our chin, show up late for work… Why?

    Because we are human! 💡

    So stop hiding in the dark and shine inside and out. We only have one life to live so start living it before its too late 👣

    #selfconfidence #masks #live #expression #life #besties #motivate
  • 12 1 21 minutes ago
  • Catch me outside playing with sparkles and light leaks. 🦄☁️💗 @glossier @glossierplay
  • Catch me outside playing with sparkles and light leaks. 🦄☁️💗 @glossier @glossierplay
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  • About 5 years, 20 pounds, and what feels like two totally different lifetimes. I'm such a different person now. I still have the same struggles, but I have learned so much, cut off the negative people, learned how to better handle my anxiety, learned how to handle losing our son, and just grew as a person. We were such babies when all this happened and I went from senior year to years of destruction for a very long time.

Watching our son die and not being able to do a thing about it, dealing with a toxic family enthralled in drug addiction, and learning how to live with a severely debilitating anxiety condition were the hardest things I've ever dealt with, and I would never wish it on anyone. I am so thankful for the people who continued to love me, to stick around while I found myself and who still continue to support me every single day.

I still have good and bad "phases" with my anxiety and I'm still not at all where I want to be with my fitness or my anxiety, but I have came a very long way, learned a lot about myself, and I know the girl on the left would be so proud of me today. She would beg to be where I am now even though I'm not happy quite with it yet.

I am working so, so hard on myself this year, mentally and physically, because I refuse to let any of it rule the rest of my/our life.

I deserve more.
I want more.
I crave more.

And I will earn it 💎
  • About 5 years, 20 pounds, and what feels like two totally different lifetimes. I'm such a different person now. I still have the same struggles, but I have learned so much, cut off the negative people, learned how to better handle my anxiety, learned how to handle losing our son, and just grew as a person. We were such babies when all this happened and I went from senior year to years of destruction for a very long time.

    Watching our son die and not being able to do a thing about it, dealing with a toxic family enthralled in drug addiction, and learning how to live with a severely debilitating anxiety condition were the hardest things I've ever dealt with, and I would never wish it on anyone. I am so thankful for the people who continued to love me, to stick around while I found myself and who still continue to support me every single day.

    I still have good and bad "phases" with my anxiety and I'm still not at all where I want to be with my fitness or my anxiety, but I have came a very long way, learned a lot about myself, and I know the girl on the left would be so proud of me today. She would beg to be where I am now even though I'm not happy quite with it yet.

    I am working so, so hard on myself this year, mentally and physically, because I refuse to let any of it rule the rest of my/our life.

    I deserve more.
    I want more.
    I crave more.

    And I will earn it 💎
  • 12 1 36 minutes ago
  • debating whether I should include singing videos in my content. would that be something you’re interested in seeing?
  • debating whether I should include singing videos in my content. would that be something you’re interested in seeing?
  • 14 9 36 minutes ago
  • This was me two years ago, and this is my today. The past few months have been a rollercoaster of emotions and but I decided to make a commitment to myself to get healthy and stay healthy. I have seen more progress in my health mentally and physically than ever before. It’s all come down to me putting mind over matter, developing good habits and believing in myself (things I have struggled with for the longest time). I still have a long way to go, this is just the start of my journey to a healthy lifestyle. It’s true when they say if you want it you’ll go and get it, you control your own destiny.  #lookgoodfeelgood #mindovermatter #healthiswealth #fitnessjourney #positivity #selflove  #selfcare #selfconfidence
  • This was me two years ago, and this is my today. The past few months have been a rollercoaster of emotions and but I decided to make a commitment to myself to get healthy and stay healthy. I have seen more progress in my health mentally and physically than ever before. It’s all come down to me putting mind over matter, developing good habits and believing in myself (things I have struggled with for the longest time). I still have a long way to go, this is just the start of my journey to a healthy lifestyle. It’s true when they say if you want it you’ll go and get it, you control your own destiny. #lookgoodfeelgood #mindovermatter #healthiswealth #fitnessjourney #positivity #selflove #selfcare #selfconfidence
  • 27 2 37 minutes ago
  • Imagine waking up next to this cuteness💕
  • Imagine waking up next to this cuteness💕
  • 18 1 38 minutes ago