The best roads don't go straight. They are full of bends and turns, ups and downs, breakdowns and breakthroughs. Sometimes we get impatient when we look around us, however faith and patience is key. There is always hope. It’s just a matter of timing.
The day I decided to let go and fully surrender my life to the one true author of my life, everything changed. I can now look back at that season of my life, as not a season of hurting and longing anymore, but a season of God's faithfulness and love, as He prepared me for the life that I have now. I stand here today, living the life of a prayer come true. Forever grateful that I chose not to settle as God truly saved the best for last 🙏💕✨
Relationship reading for CAPRICORN 26th-31st March
Not a lot seems to be happening on the surface, Capricorn, but you know as well as I do that there's some kind of a connection here. You could be in two minds about this person. I think you are also keeping this very much to yourself; you don't really want the world's opinion on this connection. Probably not a bad idea. Your person over here is completing some sort of cycle in their life, or they're just doing a lot of work, so they might not be hugely focused on anything outside of that right now. Both you and this person could be seeming a little closed off at this time, but you're probably sort of aware that your heart is in the same place as theirs, and vice versa. You might be having a bit of trouble trusting in that, or, for some reason trusting that it's okay to have this connection with this person. I'm not sure why that would be, there could be any number of reasons - but at the same time, part of your mind is quite certain about where you're going with this. Maybe your heart says yes but your mind needs more information. I think this is going to be a week of thinking, rather than action. Allow time to make sense of it. Still, if you're wondering how this person feels, they feel exactly the way you do, Capricorn. Think about that.
You’re going to have to move your feet, even if you have to start off crawling then so be it!
You CANNOT get somewhere else by staying where you are! -
You can say you have all the faith in the world...
You can tell everyone what you’re going to do…
You can believe that change will come…
But if you don’t do the work that is required of you to get to where you say your faith can take you…then it won’t work!
The 1st quarter of the year is about to come to an end…..& you’re still standing still! -
You said this will be your year but has it been? -
Stop looking for this perfect moment! Stop believing that you need a whole bunch of co-signers to confirm what you already know is best for you!
Divorcing your story involves you moving even when you don’t know the road ahead! It’s understanding that even though moving forward maybe scary, it’s even scarier to stand still.
Remember: Faith without works is DEAD!
Good morning everybody except the invisible bastard who is out there cheating on me as we speak. He broke my heart. I am getting ignored on a daily basis by men who I'm not even speaking to yet. Yesterday I phoned my voicemail and had a huge row about why I haven't been liking any of my own pictures, and I threw some of my own clothes out the window and screamed 'DON'T YOU EVER COME BACK I AM DONE WITH YOU THIS TIME' Just to stop the neighbours talking about why they haven't seen a man round here since 2002. This might all sound a bit ridiculous, but I have actually been in situations like this with men who aren't even my boyfriend. Full blown rows, catching him talking to women and going psycho, blocking and unblocking in anger, going mad about broken promises, screaming in the street, making 'coming to you as a woman' calls, all with a man who I've just been in a situationship with! There is nothing more stupid than that. Why would you fight with, or over, someone who you are not even in a relationship with? If you're having issues like this in the early days or during a no labels situationship then you should be running for your life, because where can you even go from here? Why would you pursue a relationship with someone who stresses your whole life? If you're having major problems before you've even officially got together, or within the first few months of seeing each other then this person is not your soul mate, they're more like a cell mate. Stop fighting to make things work with people who it clearly doesn't work with. Instead let go and find someone who its easy with. Relationships are going to have ups and downs but if you're fighting or stressing in the first few months before you're even properly together then it's a bad sign. Hold out for people who bring peace and calmness to your life because dysfunctional relationships are draining. Put your own peace and happiness first and choose partners wisely. Have a moron free Monday 💓
✨WE ATTRACT WHAT WE FEEL, WHAT WE ARE. NOT WHAT WE THINK WE ARE✨ #lawofattraction
If you want something else to show up in to your life, you need to start changing how you feel snout yourself, not your life.🦋
“Gaslighting can take many forms – from questioning the status of your mental health to outright challenging your lived experiences.
According to Dr. George Simon, victims of chronic gaslighting can suffer from a wide array of side effects, including flashbacks, heightened anxiety, intrusive thoughts, a low sense of self-worth, and mental confusion. In cases of severe manipulation and abuse, gaslighting can even lead to suicidal ideation, self-harm, and self-sabotage.” Excerpt taken from Shahida Arabi’s excellent article on @psychcentral_ “7 Gaslighting Phrases Malignant Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths Use To Silence You, Translated”
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Had such a great coaching session with an amazing young couple today. We did a quick marriage health check and then unpacked how they can move from where they are to where they want to be. What an honour to stand with this couple in prayer and coaching and believe for their marriage to be stronger than ever. I could tell even after just one session that this couple, who walked in with tears, walked out with HOPE! I can’t wait to see where they will be in 3-6 months from now! If you’d like coaching for your relationship or any area of your life, book a free introductory session with me at thescarboroughs.com/coaching #lifecoach#coaching#healthymarriage#marriage#relationships#partner#engaged#single#married#relationshipgoals#marriagegoals
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Never underestimate the power of relationships when trying to create change. Here's some feedback from one of our Mum's who is being supported by our student on placement #relationships#friendships#support#change
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On Thursday, I had the incredible privilege of turning 47! 🎈FORTY SEVEN! 🎉I feel so completely honored to still be walking through this phenomenal world, and I brim with gratitude for every single day that I’ve been gifted! 47 years of living, loving, learning, and leveling UP! I have been given the most extraordinary gifts in this life, and I am one very, very grateful girl. I give special thanks to the stumbles that taught me to stand, for without them, I wouldn’t be where I am! They were the path that led to my purpose, and I am forever in awe of the light they shed on my life! We’re all here to be blessings to one another, and I want to thank you, for being such a beautiful blessing to me! Thank you for allowing me to share with you, to serve you and support you. We all deserve to live a life we love and I firmly believe that it’s something we ALL can achieve! Just the fact that you’re here, means you’re in the right gear!😎 I see you, I salute you and I appreciate you! Cheers to you, cheers to me, and to peace, purpose and prosperity! xo, Jen ✌🏼💕