The Prophet pbuh said: "...And if something bad befalls you, do not say, 'Had I done such-and-such, then such-and-such would have happened, rather say: Qadrullaahi, wa maa shaa'fa'ala (This is from the Qadr of Allah, and He does whatever He wills).'" -Muslim
And so, even, when we don't get what we wish for, despite the hurt we must carry on, regardless, and not harden our hearts.
This is the test of the strength of your Imaan. To trust Him even when things do not go your way. So stretch your wings and fly regardless of the drop or fear of fall because, the mercy and love of Allah encompasses you.
One of the many scenic views from the Helderberg Escarpment, also known as Helderberg Mountains, about 11 miles west of Albany, NY. The escarpment rises steeply from the Hudson valley below, gaining 700 feet elevation over a horizontal distance of 2000 ft!